Friday, October 16, 2009


Thank you for the kind words...

We just got back - the numbers indicate that it is miscarriage #2.

At least... it's not as far along as the first, so I wasn't as emotionally invested. And not being as far along means (hopefully) that it won't be as horribly painful as the first. There isn't exactly a silver lining or bright side here; that's the best I can do.

I'll probably have to go for a D&C this time which is scary. I'm getting a referral to an OB/gyn. Hopefully they will be able to address our troubles in a way my family doctor can't.


  1. Yeah, having a miscarriage is never a good thing, but at least it's not an ectopic pregnancy... and at least the suspense is over. I hope you won't have to deal with any more nasty surprises!

  2. I am so sorry, it is so heart breaking to hear.

  3. I am so sorry! I was thinking about you and hoping for the best. I really hope that you have some good care this time. Take care of yourself.

  4. Oh, Emily. I am so very sorry to read this! My heart just breaks for you. No words really provide comfort. I will pray that you do not need a D&C and that you are able to fully heal so you are able to have a healthy 9 months with a sticky baby!

  5. I'm so sorry to hear this...even early on, it's a very heartbreaking thing.

    Are you actively ttc with the help of a doctor? If you would like to email me, I can point you to some on-line boards I was part of while ttc, support groups for women who basically share the struggles and adventures of trying, the early months, etc.


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